lets get married!!! haha.

Ehmm. Kahwin. Bernikah. Menjadi seorang ibu? atau suri rumah? Jaga anak, kemas rumah, jaga keperluan suami, pastu kalau sempat urus keperluan diri sendiri. wuish banyak gila tanggungjawab. Ready for that? Live that life without bringing troubles to other people? Tiba-tiba jak muncul pasal topik ni. What's the season now, getting married at a ripe age of 23? that's the latest trend I guess. But there's nothing wrong with getting married when you are seriously prepared mentally, physically, emotionally, and not to forget financially. Go on live your life to the fullest if you can find a working guy as your husband. But the thing is, are you really ready for this? Need to see all of this in a big picture.Completing house chores while you need to cover all the topics for exams, frankly if this is given to me I am 110% sure I won't be able to do it. Not to mention arguments and and misunderstandings. Unsettled arguments before you go to bed would be painful enough to make you bleed you heart out. Things are not the same as they used to be when you're dating. He pissed you off, all you need to do is show him some water works (hey I mean cry a little bit) and there you go he instantly tries to win your heart back at any cost. What a wonderful situation. Honeymoon phase. It's totally different when you are both husband and wife. You have nowhere to run. What will happen if your attitude is too nerve wrecking and he totally snapped out of it? ever heard of divorce? of course that's the last thing you want to happen in your marriage. My point is, do you really think you're matured enough to go through all of these? Congratulation for people who do think they can make it. But for me, as a reminder for myself, I won't take this as a game. Marriage is a huge decision to make in your life. No offense to people who will be tying the knot soon, I wish you guys the very best of luck in the future. It's just that....all these commotions sort of make me feel like I need to make a change in my life, because these stuffs constantly remind me of the responsibility of being a full-fledged adult. It actually freaks me out. No more childish acts or thoughts....just serious matters. I've just finished reading what I've been typing....and I hate to say that boy I sounded so damn melancholic!! I just wanna express my thoughts and it turned out to be like some kind of a lamentation from a depressed person? hmmm......anyways just think carefully before you make a decision and don't rush things up!! kalau tersilap beli mangga yang masam, boleh beli mangga baru yang lebih manis contohnya Harumanis tapi kalau dah silap langkah dalam hidup, it's quite hard to fix, you see. I will try to keep on reminding myself about this.Till then, Happy Saturday.

berasa agak insecure & kurang tenang

hmm...sebenarnya mau cakap pasal kolej ak....recently I've read about one article stating that my college appointed several celebrities to be their representative/ spokesperson...the first thought of mine was like 'what the...?' I can't even see the purpose of this action....tiba2 ak rasa macam belajar dalam akademi fantasia pulak....perlukah ambil artis untuk jadi duta? ak x nampak any benefit melainkan untuk meraih publisiti murahan semata2....strategy bisnes la katakan...pelik....kalau mo cakap kebajikan kami sebagai student di sini sangat terpelihara, x jugak....banyak kali terpaksa berdepan dengan problem akibat management yang agak....x efektif & last minit. I think doing unnecessary stuffs is their expertise...they might have a PhD in those kind of thing. satu demi satu la hal2 yang xberfaedah diorg buat. xpaham betul....pelik tapi benar...too much flaws in their system to the extend that they can't be concealed anymore. aku takut 1 hari nanti ada hal buruk yang jadi pada kami semua....tiba2 x eligible to practice as a doctor....ak mo watpa time tu...? mo start balek from ground zero..? gilaka apa? mo jadi penyanyi gakla pastu tunggu dilantik jadi duta untuk certain university pulak. ataupun jadi pelukis manga/komik..atau bukak kedai bunga or roti. emm apa lagi ya cita2 ak..? jadi translator atau anything to do with language. ak sukak language...hehehe bahasa cina or jepun. haha...bukak kedai pet ka....hmmphhh. Ya Allah mudah2an ak sempat jadi doktor.....because I don't even have a convincing plan B to live the rest of my life. Orang cakap balek kampung tanam jagung (kalau mau tanam kelapa sawit ok x sebab lagi banyak duit hehe) atau kahwin terus (the latter one seems more promising ahahahaha). Tidakkk.......!!!

recall your near death experience.do you even have any?

hehe. tiba-tiba rasa mo update blog. memang sindrom update blog akan melanda setiap kali after exam. xkirala apa jenis exam pun hehe. emm secara random tiba2 ak terfikir dulu time kecik ak banyak kali mengalami saat2 getir yang bahaya. But maybe I was too young to realize about it back then. (warning: penggunaan bahasa Tawau yang sangat pekat....in order to describe the situation better....hehehe)

1. Ak hampir lemas. Serious hampir2 byebye. time darjah 6....dalam swimming pool lagi tu. haha xsedar diri pendek mau jugak masok dalam pool yang dalam 1.7m. walaupun xdala dalam sangat tapi kalau sudah xpandai berenang memang bahaya la. First2 tu ak rasa kaki ak xcapai dasar pool tu, lepas tu memang tenggelam la...ak buka mata dalam air....ak try struggle ke tepi sebab macam nampak ada tangga dekat2 tu....tapi xtau napa rasa badan statik n xgerak langsung. hmmm mulalah all thoughts of hantu air tarik kaki popped out in my mind. Aaaaa memang panik time tu sebab rasa cam mo abis bekalan nafas suda hahaha apakah penggunaan bahasa ini...ak ingat ak lemas la ni (seorang murid darjah 6 dijumpai terapung di kolam renang blablablaa hehe)..nasib baik ada kawan ak yang main2 dekat tangga pool tu...ak dengan lincah la menarik bajunya...dia ketawa2 lagi ingatkan ak mo main2 ngan dia....tapi memang dia penyelamat la...terus balek bilik dengan muka pucat...hehe seraaaaam.sawan orang bilang.hehee

2. Satu malam yang sedang hujan lebat, ak terbangun n rasa mau g toilet (ui cerita hantu la bha ni kan hehe). pastu kalau kita on lampu toilet tu kan mesti lampu tu cam kelip2 dulu kan kira cam gelap2 lagi la...ak pun masok jak toilet tu...sekali time lampu betul2 da on, baru ak perasan tepi kaki ak ada seekor lipan bara hensem yang sangat besar...besaaaaaar gilaaaaaaaa macam gabungan dua jari kelingking.pastu panjang dalam lebi kurang 15cm. uikk detail gila cara ak describe macam sempat ukur jak. tapi itula lipan paling obese n gemuk yang pernah jumpa. Kalau digigit tu nescaya innalillah la kali. kalau x pun memang merana la masok hospital. warna dia macam merah coklat. huuu just thinking about it gives me goosebumps.seraam seraaaaam. pastu pakcik ak dengan machonya menangkap lipan tersebut & beliau (lipan tu la) dimasukkan ke dalam botol coca-cola yang kosong. hehehehee.

3. Dulu2 time kecik ak sangat hyperactive nakal and sangat 'Dora the Explorer'. apa x, semua pelusuk hutan sekunder belakang rumah ak terokai. maybe sebab tu ak suka tumbuh-tumbuhan eh apa kaitan. tapi ada one time tu ak p main2 and tiba2 tergelincir. ak sempat berpaut dengan bushes tapi tengok2 bushes tu berakar serabut. kan dulu time belajar sains form 3 akar serabut grip dia lebih lemah compared to akar tunjang. hehehe sempat lagi tu pikir pasal mekanisme. kira akar tu macam semakin tercabut la.kepala ak betul2 di bawah...ak tengok bawah ak ada batu2 tajam n besar...kira kalau jatuh memang terhempas (terbentur hahahaha) di batu2 tu...terus ak jerit2 nama adek sepupu ak nasib baik dia dengar...jadi kali ni dialah penyelamat ak n tarik ak naik....huuu jasamu dikenang......

heheheh so far tu jak yang berjaya ak recall...yang lain2 maybe x significant....thank God I'm still alive.... =)

musuh dalam selimut. api dalam sekam. dan yang sewaktu dengannya

certain people they would do anything to see you suffer. xboleh tengok ko senang sikit. kalau ko happy2 and doing just fine, ada jak benda yang dorang mau kecoh2kan and report to orang lain. cakap ini lah itu lah. end up nanti ko kena marah padahal u dont even know apa salah ko. ak xpaham motif orang begitu. why? are u jealous of me? ko dengki ngan ak? well, keep on doing it. because u make me even more popular every time u bitch about me.Gila.go get a life. so this is what you've been doing? add me up on FB, go on stalking my life, so u can make a complete 'report' about me to my parent? even though it is some kind of wicked twisted 'report'? congratulations. u've passed with flying colors.Go rot in hell.

Day 25- What I would find in your bag

Haluuuu...! aikkk malar pulak update blog kan? nampak sangat xda kerja. I am supposed to read a few topics on dermatology sebab esok da start new posting. Hmm memandangkan skrg ni siang yang panas and sangat x kondusif (betul ka penggunaan word tu? haha) untuk study, so ak merepek a.k.a syok sendiri la kejap ya. Eh before tu, just wanna say I'm quite happy today because I received a phone call from my bro...lama da dia x call ak...sebelum ak mengamok dengan lebih ekstensif lagi dia explain la before ni dia langsung xdapat coverage sebab atas laut kan. okay alasan diterima. But when he started to talk about his marriage, I'm like 'lalalalaaalaaa'. hahaha kejam betul (still in denial phase..haha). Anyway I miss u so much bro...welcome home!

abang rijal & hafeez

Okay back to the topic....bag. An essential item for a lady. even bawak phone sebijik pun beg bukan main gedabak. sangat jarang mau jumpa perempuan letak phone dalam poket. yala nanti bulging la apala xcantik la.(hehe ni suma alasan ak la ni...xtawla org lain..kalau ak bawak phone & wallet tp xbawak beg mesti poket mr. panda jadi mangsa utk letak barang2 ak. hehe). Jadi, kalau perempuan xda beg time berjalan2 di bandar adalah quite unusual. hmm kalau tiba2 org ada opportunity untuk selongkar beg ak, ni la agak2nya benda yang boleh dijumpai....bermula dari benda2 yang sangat common...

Okay...I really want that Fossil bag....huwaaaa

1. My Phone. Duhh who doesn't? (tapi pasni there's no way I will leave my bag unattended. Blame the blogspot question for making me reveal my personal stuffs in this blog hehe)

comelnya yang color baby blue & hijau tu...waaaaa

2. Wallet. again another common item. Unless kalau mau dibelanja oleh boyfriend setiap hari silalah tinggalkan wallet di rumah....NO! haha not me ok..

cantiknya wallet ni....hehehe

3. Tissue/ oil-blotter (kepada sesiapa yang xtau ni apa...this is a small blue colored paper, used to wipe off excess oil/sebum on your face). Oleh kerana muka ak super-berminyak, I need this thing all the time...! berasa bangga when I managed to turn the oil blotter into a transparent one (kira dah absorb banyak gila minyak di muka, cukup banyak untuk masak pisang goreng.haha hiperbola betul)

haaa ni dia life-saver.hehehe

4. My MP4 player. especially when I'm traveling by plane. Ni untuk distract/minimize my phobia naik flight. sebab ak memang susah/almost impossible to sleep on a plane..kalau hari biasa xdala bawak mp4 ni...

hehehe another life-saver. =)

5. Lip balm/lipstick. I'd look really2 pale without one. Lagipun cracked lips looked sooo unappealing.

love that color.... =)

6. Pen. Usually I'll end up looking for a pen everywhere, constantly losing it, especially when I urgently need one (time mau isi departure card etc.)

colorful...! dari kecik memang suka alat tulis yg warna-warni

7. Sweets (usually mint-flavored). hmmm sebab ak suka mengunyah maybe..?hehe

ak bukan mau wat iklan untuk mentos k...tapi memang suka gula2 ni huu

8. Compact powder. enough said. hehe

mau jugak lancome kan..ehehee

9. My beloved minyak kayu putih/eucalyptus oil/cajuput oil. Go google it. hehe I love the soothing scent...especially when I have a headache/nausea. Tapi ada certain orang xsuka bau tu...ehehe apa bole buatla...punya wangi tu camana la org xsuka.....iskk.

heheheh siap ada tanda harga & bear agy...my magic oil!!

 10. Pendrive. xtau napa kadang2 ada pendrive boleh sesat masok beg ak. hehe maybe sebab simpan lagu & mau pasang dalan kereta...tapi bukan selalu pun ada dalam beg....hehe

cantik gila pendrive ni...ntah berapa ribu la harga dia kan..hehehe

Hmm...I think that's all....tapi in the future kalau lepak ngan geng tawau ak kena bawak phone charger, toothbrush, facial wash, lense case & solution. sebab kalau lepak dengan drg sangat unpredictable kadang2 end up bermalam di rumah drg.time tula sibuk mau beli toothbrush and all. hehehe

Nicknames you have; why do you have them

I grew up with quite a few nicknames....ada yang ak suka and ada yg ak benci...actually it brings lots of sweet memories...hehehe...inilah dia nama2 glamor ak spnjang 23 tahun ak hidup..

1. Mon. The name originates from 'Doraemon'. Nama ni kakak ak yang 2nd paling suka panggil.(but skrg ak panggil dia eukybear.em.sbb ak rasa dia comel cam bear.ahahahaha). Sebab kalau ada Doraemon di TV mesti ak melekat depan TV sampai abis. kira peminat fanatik doraemon la ak ni. masok Quang Ming (a bookshop in Tawau, quite popular among primary school students sebab rasa mo beli semua stationary dalam tu.hehe) mesti carik komik doraemon despite harga yg agak mahal.hehe.

I still love doraemon till today!!

2. Ning. Wanna know why? walaupun I am about to buka pekung di dada tapi xpala ak explain gak la napa ak dapat nickname ni....sebab siblings ak selalu cakap mulut ak lebar n besar macam Ning Baizura. kejam x? made the rest of my childhood quite a misery. hahahahaha betapa mengamoknya ak kalau drg start panggil ak ning. argghhhhhh mengapakah...? even my mom pun panggil ak Ning. tapi bila pikir2 balek, memang time kecik pantang dikacau sikit terus terus tantrums....hahahah darah muda yang panas la katakan. ehm berpikir dengan lebih positif, maybe drg panggil ak Ning sebab suara ak sangat lantang & bising gila kalau menjerit. so sebab tu Ning (suara dia kan power n lantang ehehe apakah ini cubaan menyedapkan hati). Ingat lagi ak sampai bertumbuk ngan cousin lelaki ak sebab dorang kept on teasing me. hahaha apala pnya childhood. ak rascal time kecik jgn main2. hehehe. skrg ni ak lagi jahat suka kacau nieces & nephews ak. memang budak2 pantang dikacau mesti menangis atau kejar ak untuk dipukul. hehehe. aunty on revenge ngahahahaha

awan yang terpilu...(imagine ak nyanyi lagu ni dengan nada Ning yang terketar2.hahaha)

3. Babak/ Blackeye. this is one nickname yang lekat ngan ak till today. sebab benda tu memang ada pada ak and xpernah hilang. siapa2 yang rapat ngan ak mesti noticed, on my left eye, ada tanda lahir/ mole/ nevi/ discoloration or whatever u might call it. So kakak ak (and agaiiiinn) panggil ak 'black eye'. Dia cakap kalau ak hilang di mana2 senang mau cari balek sebab ak ja yang ada benda itam di mata ak. Pastu dia cakap lagi nanti kalau ak kahwin, saving cket eyeliner mak andam sebab dah ada eyeliner permanent di mata ak. waaay to go sis. silakan condemn ak. ahahaha such a way to express her love to me. Ada kawan ak pun pernah tegur: "mimi napa ko pakai eyeliner separuh/sebelah mata ja?" eheheheh rasa macam mau melompat ke dalam lubang dengan kadar segera....segera...segera....(bunyi bergema-gema) pada waktu itu. haha. (for reference sila rujuk profile pic ak & zoom part mata.ehehe)

4. Cathy/Kathy. Originates from my real name. KHATIJAH. hahahahahah apakah......mengapakah nama ak perlu di'modify' sebegitu rupa. xpala kawan2 yg penting kamu bahagia. ahahahah.

abaikan universitas sumatera utara ak tu.haizzz

5. Kajili-jili. Hambek ko. no clue at all kan apa maksud dia? hahahaha tu bahasa Bugis, maksud dia macam clumsy and kelam-kabut. Ni nama family ak ja yg boleh panggil. kalau org lain sila bersedia untuk dikelar. ahahah sungguh ego di situ.hehe bolehla panggil tp dalam hati jak ya jgn sampai ak dengar k. walaupun ak xsuka dipanggil tu. yaaa I admit I am a clumsy and unorganized person. selalu wat benda last minit, selalu tertinggal barang blablaaabla. pastu all the incidents and accidents yg berlaku time ak sekolah menengah (malunya Tuhan saja la bha yg tahu). hahahah sila jangan remind ak semua benda itu okehsss. bila la mau berubah & jadi lebih alert ni...uwarghh

ini clumsy secara cantik. pentipu bha ni.ahahah

ini baru betul. clumsy secara comel.eeheheh for that cat of course. kalau ak mesti kena bunuh.hehe

emmm.....tu ja la kot.....yang lain2 macam Mimi Chang, Chang Mei Ling (nama cina ak yg glamor time sekolah rendah only ahaha)... anyway just call me MIMI. that's my real name okiess. hehe

Day 15 (ntah hari ke brapa suda ni haha)- Put your iPod on shuffle: First 10 songs that play (actually bkn iPod...it's just my beloved Sony MP4 player..hehe)

ehehehe sebab xtau mo tulis apa untuk update benda ni....macam ada sarang labah2 n lumut2 ijau time ak bukak blog ni....terabai begitu sahaja...macam projek hostel ak yg terabai....janji mo siap by 2006....hahahahaa abaikan apa yg ak ckp td...ok2 here it goes.....

1. *~Asterisk~ by Orange Range (Bleach OST)

orange range

2. It's Over by John Legend feat. Kanye West

pic John Legend only..sbb ak geli ngan kanye west..eheheh

3. Viva La Vida by Coldplay

been loving coldplay since 2002. believe it or not..? with the song 'In My Place'

4. Misery by Maroon 5

I've been a die hard fan of Maroon 5 since 'This Love' first debuted...!

5. Zetsubou Billy by Maximum the Hormone (Death Note OST)

Light Yagami..i love L though...expect hard rock tunes from this song...

6. Song For... by Rookiez is Punk'd (Bleach OST)

Bleach OST occupied most of the space in my MP4..hehe

7. Purple Line by TVXQ

my changmin & jaejoong!!!hehehe

8. Bintang Di Syurga by Peterpan

lets forget about Ariel's scandal for a moment..they've made such good songs..!

9. Miss Independent by Ne-Yo

how can I forget my neyo..?hehe

10. I Hope by FT Island

my HongKi is waaay too cute...! his voice is awesome too..!

hee tiba2 berasa malu dengan list2 lagu dlm mp4 sendiri...kalau pasang lagu2 ni dlm kreta mr. panda mesti dia mngamok....sbb taste lagu kami mmg xsama...dia suka lagu2 yg tenang & smooth (bak kata dia lagu2 org matang)...dia migrain kalau dengar lagu ak..xpaham maksud (korea & japan) n music jiwa kacau....bukan main agy condemn citarasa music ak kan...hahaha xpala bagi can sama si kawan...kena mintak permission dulu ni if mau psg lagu2 bgini dlm kreta...huwaaarghhh